Mourn not Merry?
Ex Prime Minister (PM) Rathnasiri
Wickramanayake passed away on 27th December 2016.
The Home
Affairs Ministry of Sri Lanka declared 31st December as a national
day of mourning as a mark of respect to the late PM. Few hours later they cancelled
31st & declared 30th. Later they scrapped the idea of
mourning.
Any average home will experience
chaos & conflict at a family funeral. May be
Home Ministry was also chaotic just like an average home when the Ex PM died?
May be
they didn’t want to kill the mood of those who mourn with a hot drink? As we know at some family funerals alcohol &
tobacco is served to those who mourn at rear gardens, car parks or at a
neighbour’s house etc.
Home
ministry managed the funeral of Ven Maduluvave Sobitha. No one is sure why the remains of late monk was dressed
with exposed arms in an unprecedented way of dressing remains of a Buddhist
monk. May be the ministry was not sure how
to dress the remains of Ex PM?
May
be they weren’t sure how many days should be declared as they declared seven
days of mourning when Pandith Amaradeva died? May be
they didn’t like the Ex PM’s voice?
Ex
PM’s party (SLFP) leaders may be thinking that not mourning will resolve
interparty conflicts despite the fact that he served twice as PM under SLFP
Presidents Kumaratunga & Rajapaksa. Kumaratunga who severely
criticize Rajapaksa nepotism picked Rathnasiri first as PM to fill the post
after her mother resigned from the post. May be some didn’t
want to do a ‘mathata thitha’ even for a day since it was the ex man’s line.
The
average citizen should develop skills to; face family crisis with confidence,
manage finances, manage relationships & protect property etc. during a
crisis. If the citizens develop these skills, may be the Home Ministry will
learn from the people.
© Dr. Samitha Hettige, December
2016.